Domestic Violence

Domestic Violence is a terrible thing.  But wrongly accusing someone of committing this heinous act is almost as despicable as the act itself.   Hire Richard F. Fried, Esq. for your Domestic Violence Case because of his:

  • Compassion
  • Knowledge
  • Experience

Hire a lawyer for your Domestic Violence case:

  • Because a skilled lawyer will present your best case.
  • Orders can include child support and other relief.
  • Defendants: a final restraining order can be personally devastating.

Learn More About Domestic Violence Below

Understanding the Domestic Violence Law in New Jersey

Domestic Violence: An Introduction

If you believe you will become a victim of domestic violence, or that your spouse or dating partner is attempting to “bait you” into hurting him or her, the best advice I can give is to leave your home!  Do not remain in a dangerous, volatile situation.  If you are in fear of returning home, go to your nearest police precinct and seek assistance.  The police will advise you as to  how to obtain a restraining order.For victims of Domestic Violence, it couldn’t be more real.  Victims need protection, and the State of New Jersey and each city and town do their best to manage this complex social ill.Yet–their is a seedy underside to this relatively new area of regulation, and that is the false accusation.  In a small number of cases, a victim will file a false report to gain the upper hand in a divorce or other family case, such as a custody or child support matter.How can this be so?  Wouldn’t it be against the law for a person to mislead a police officer by accusing another person of a criminal act that never occurred?  Wouldn’t lying under oath or swearing falsely in an affidavit lead to prosecutions for perjury?Sadly, in an honorable effort to encourage victims of violence to enforce their rights, the State of New Jersey has been unable to come up with a consistent way to punish people who file false claims.  False claims can be repeated again and again without any ramifications to the supposed victim.  For the falsely accused defendant, there is no way to get reimbursed for legal fees or to even obtain basic damages for loss of wages for days wasted in court, other than intricate procedural techniques which exist on paper but are rarely enforced.

How to Prove Domestic Violence    

In order to prove domestic violence took place the plaintiff victim needs to show that she or he is either:

  • eighteen years of age or older, or an emancipated minor; and
  • is or was married to the defendant; or
  • is dating (or has dated) the defendant; or
  • is or was recently sharing a household with the defendant (including blood relatives); or
  • has a child in common with the defendant.

The plaintiff victim must then prove that the defendant committed at least one of the fourteen (14) different criminal actions described in the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act, the most commonplace being harassment and/or assault.It sounds complicated, but it is easy to do.  Rarely will a Judge not find a legal basis, referred to in the law as “probable cause”, to issue a Temporary Restraining Order.The Prevention of Domestic Violence Act was not designed to prevent spouses from having arguments (even nasty ones) or to protect against isolated incidents, although a violent act committed even once is often grounds for a final restraining order.

Criminal Actions Under the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act

  1. Homicide
  2. Assault
  3. Terrorist Threats
  4. Kidnapping
  5. Criminal Restraint
  6. False Imprisonment
  7. Sexual Assault
  8. Criminal Sexual Assault
  9. Lewdness
  10. Criminal Mischief
  11. Burglary
  12. Criminal Trespass
  13. Harassment
  14. Stalking

Just What Is a Restraining Order?

A restraining order is an order issued by a judge to restrain a defendant from communicating with a victim (or their family or co-workers) by any means including phoning, emailing, texting or otherwise.  It may include provisions for support or temporary financial arrangements, custody and visitation of children, forfeiture of firearms, etc.It is extremely important to read your temporary restraining order carefully and to follow it to the letter!  Even if you sincerely believe that you are not guilty of committing the alleged criminal act, a violation of a restraining order is itself a criminal act!  You read that right–if you fail to follow this court order, even if you are totally innocent of the alleged original act, you can be fined and incarcerated!  This can also lead to a permanent criminal record.The worst thing that can happen is to be falsely accused of violence, to later prove you are innocent, and to then be jailed because you violated that bogus order.  Don’t do it!Remember that a restraining order does not necessarily result in a criminal record, but a violation of an existing restraining order does.  And always remember that Judges are more likely to find you credible on the witness stand if they know that you follow court orders.  Credibility goes hand in hand with obeying the law, although it certainly doesn’t qualify you for special treatment under the law.  Obeying the law is just common sense.  Breaking the law just makes a bad situation worse.

What is the Process after a TRO is issued?

A temporary restraining order (“TRO”) usually results in a hearing being held in the County Courthouse within three to ten days of the issuance of the TRO.  The hearing is a trial with witnesses, including anyone who saw the alleged violent act, and/or police officers who saw the “aftermath” and filed a report.If the defendant fails to show up for court (but he/she knows about the hearing), a Final Restraining Order is likely to be granted.  However, a victim plaintiff must still prove to the Judge that he/she is entitled to the protection of the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act, even if the defendant doesn’t show.  But the Judge will only hear one side of the story, and that is never a good way to defend yourself!  A defendant must come to court to present their best defense.  Once the Judge hears both sides, he/she will make a decision as to whether a Final Restraining Order should be granted.

Why do you need a lawyer for this proceeding?

Either side or both sides are entitled to be represented by attorneys.  If you are wrongly accused of domestic violence, not hiring an attorney experienced in this area of the law may prove to be a costly mistake.If a Final Restraining Order is granted a defendant will have the right to appeal, but it will be extremely difficult and quite costly at that point to do much about it.